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The "Butterfly's Whisper" Blog

Welcome to my blog. I hope by sharing my own misophonia experiences, others who are frustrated with misophonia sensitivities will discover that they're not alone. I also hope that people who may not have misophonia will gain some insight about what it's like to have this condition.

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Still talking about misophonia...

3/22/2014

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This past Thursday was a big day for talking about my misophonia experiences. Back in September of last year, I presented a speech to my Toastmasters' club as a way to introduce myself and to spread a little more awareness about misophonia. One of the reasons why I rejoined Toastmasters in the first place, after a seven-year hiatus,  was because I knew if I wanted to promote more awareness about misophonia to the general public (especially if there might be opportunities to be on TV or the radio), I really needed to brush-up on my speaking skills. I also knew that Toastmasters holds speech contests every year, one of which being an international contest where top speakers compete against other speakers from around the world. If I could do well and progress through the various contest levels, I figured it would mean that many more people would learn about misophonia.

Although my original idea for Thursday's speech contest was to use a much more abbreviated version of the speech I presented back in September, a couple of days before the competition, I realized I had a better idea of how to talk about misophonia in my speech... One with which the audience could better relate... And it worked! I won the speech contest at the Club Level and am now gearing up for the Area Contest on Tuesday, April 8th. From the comments I received after the competition, my strategy worked. People could really connect with what I was saying, and it seems one sentence stood out for everyone... When I commented that the motion of someone bouncing their legs or fidgeting out of nervousness would make me extremely anxious too. (I can say that I've been sitting here in a coffee shop for over a half hour and one person sitting two tables away from me has been bouncing her foot since the moment I arrived. It is so annoying!!! Thank goodness for having long hair to block that motion from my peripheral vision.)

The speech contest wasn't the only sharing of misophonia experiences that I did on Thursday. After the contest, I had lunch with one of my fellow Toastmasters and then hung out a little bit longer so that I could be interviewed by a student over Skype for a class paper he's writing. I was so flattered to get an email from him last week asking for the interview and although he said that it was only for class, not to be published, I figure if I can help anyone by talking about my misophonia experiences, I would never hesitate to do so. (I just usually ask to see the final write-up when it's done.)

He first asked me about myself in general and then we went into more detail about how misophonia affected my life... When did I first notice it? How do I cope with triggers? Have I done anything extreme to  prevent being exposed to triggers? It was interesting talking with him. Although lately I've done my share of thinking about misophonia in my past while I've been working on my memoir, there are some things that came out in trying to answer his questions that I hadn't thought about in a long time. I look forward to reading his paper when it's finished.

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4/7/2022 04:55:11 am

Thank you so much for the great work!!

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    About the Author

    Emlyn Altman has been suffering with misophonia for over 40 years, even though she only found out about the actual medical condition much more recently. As frustrating as the condition has been over the years, her heightened sensitivities across all the senses considerably influenced her talents within the visual fine arts (particularly sculpture), music (singing, piano, and many other instruments), writing, and culinary backgrounds, as well as professional achievements as an architectural lighting designer. Her goal in developing this website is to promote more awareness about misophonia and help other sufferers as well.


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