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Welcome to my blog. I hope by sharing my own misophonia experiences, others who are frustrated with misophonia sensitivities will discover that they're not alone. I also hope that people who may not have misophonia will gain some insight about what it's like to have this condition.

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The kindness of strangers

6/29/2014

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So, here ends another week of traveling. As usual, airports were full of anxious (or bored) passengers waiting for their flights so I won't reiterate those trigger experiences. It's the just same ol' triggers, different day. I did have an interesting experience at this latest destination though... I'm used to traveling for business by myself, so eating solo at restaurants is nothing new to me. This time however, I may have started off by myself but I ended with a fun group of flight attendants who were enjoying the city before heading back to Atlanta the next day.
The day started with my going to the visitors' center to get a train schedule so I'd know my options for heading back to the airport the next day. I asked the representatives there where would be a good place to enjoy a happy hour drink and munchies that evening. The first woman responded, "Everyplace is good for happy hour!" (No help there...) but when I pushed for more specific information, the second
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woman said that there was a restaurant on the 30th floor of one of the prominent skyscrapers that had a great view of the city. She wasn't wrong! I got to the restaurant just as happy hour was starting, so I was able to snag a table right by the window overlooking the river and other sights. At first I felt a bit guilty about taking a table for four when I was just sitting by myself, but the server assured me that it was first come, first served and that I didn't need to concern myself. (It was a Monday, so I didn't think happy hour would be as busy as it wound up being.)

My commandeering such a large table wound up being a good thing though. About an hour into my meal, two women approached me asking if they, and a third woman, could join me. I said, "Absolutely!" and I'm so glad I did. The three women were all flight attendants who had known each other for over twenty years. They were very nice and I enjoyed our conversations about the places where they've traveled, as well as their interest in my current trip. At one point, I must've mentioned how although I enjoy traveling to new places, my sound sensitivity can make it a bit stressful at times too. The flight attendant who was sitting next to me inquired more about my misophonia and when I described it to her, she said she knew someone who got very annoyed with eating noises, among other things, too. I wound up giving her the business card that I developed for this website so she could share it with her friend.

At one point, when the topic changed to their kids and family, I mentioned how my "baby" is a little cockatiel and as much as I'd love to travel with him, the idea of spending $175 to put him under the seat in-front of me was not appealing. That's when one of the women suggested that I get him authorized to
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be an "Emotional Support Animal." Since I was already diagnosed with a medical condition (misophonia), all it would require is to get a note from the doctor and let the airline know. Then I'd be allowed to bring my bird on the plane and hold him in my lap, instead of having to put him under the seat in front of me. She also mentioned I might have to get one of those "Emotional Support Animal" vests, but I couldn't imagine getting one so small, not to mention that I think my bird would have a fit if I tried to put a vest on him.  One of the other attendants agreed that getting him authorized to be an emotional support animal should be possible, and very likely would then allow me to have him with me while traveling without having to pay the $175 fee too.

What's ironic is when I went to the airport the next evening, I saw a woman with a little dog that was wearing one of those "Emotional Support Animal" vests. I couldn't believe the coincidence! In all the years of traveling, I've never seen one of
those vests, only the ones  for service animals (usually when the owner is blind) or the TSA drug sniffing dogs (where the vest says not to touch the dog while he's working).  Perhaps it's a sign that I should consider getting my little guy approved for future travels. All I can do is try...

So, in letting a group of strangers join me for drinks, I not only received great company and conversation in return, I also learned something new that would be useful for coping with misophonia while traveling.
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Sarah
6/29/2014 11:55:45 am

That is a brilliant idea about the Emotional Support Animal. If I didn't think I'd be spending more time soothing them, I'd get that for one of my pooches!

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Emlyn link
6/30/2014 01:51:36 pm

Thanks, Sarah! Yeah, I was pretty excited after learning about it too. I know what you mean though. Last time I took my cockatiel, Tooki, on a plane in a carrier that fit under the seat in front of me, he kept pacing back and forth during the flight. I finally calmed him down, but I'm sure he would've preferred being on my shoulder instead of in the carrier.

I wonder if a cat would be more relaxed... Can you imagine an emotional support fish too? LOL!

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Marija link
7/2/2014 04:41:30 pm

Nothing is coincidence, just pay attention and listen to the signs that life gives you ;)

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    About the Author

    Emlyn Altman has been suffering with misophonia for over 40 years, even though she only found out about the actual medical condition much more recently. As frustrating as the condition has been over the years, her heightened sensitivities across all the senses considerably influenced her talents within the visual fine arts (particularly sculpture), music (singing, piano, and many other instruments), writing, and culinary backgrounds, as well as professional achievements as an architectural lighting designer. Her goal in developing this website is to promote more awareness about misophonia and help other sufferers as well.


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