The funny thing about having an office to one's self (versus working in a large firm) is that my exposure to misophonia triggers has drastically decreased. Other than the triggers I get when meeting with clients or sales reps, usually I'm in a quiet office with a wonderful view of the water for visual breaks. I guess that might be one of the reasons why I haven't been posting as much lately.

That's not to say that I am completely trigger-free. (If only that were the case). No, lately the majority of my triggers are at those client/sales rep meetings, at home whenever TV commercials come on (that goodness for the mute button and FF button!), or while doing errands in public. (Usually that last one is when a store employee is whistling while (s)he works. Damn that Disney song. LOL!)

I do have some new links to share about the "Quiet Please" documentary movie about misophonia. The film's creator has been interviewed many times since the premiere - including an article in the Huffington Post!

• Huffington Post: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/chester-goad-edd-/quiet-please-filmmaker-je_b_10497022.html
  

• SEV Network: http://sevnetwork.com/quiet-please/
  
• Motherboard: http://motherboard.vice.com/read/theres-a-new-film-about-misophonia-where-people-are-enraged-by-certain-sounds
  
• Observer: http://observer.com/2016/06/if-you-suffer-from-misophonia-everyday-life-can-become-unbearable/
  
•  Stat: https://www.statnews.com/2016/06/17/misophonia-noise-rage/
  
• Sixx Sense: http://sixxsense.iheart.com/onair/sixx-sense-54580/audio-deeper-with-jeffrey-gould-15005827/
  
•  One Part Plant One Part Podcast: http://jessicamurnane.com/misophonia-documentary/ 
  
• WOBM Interview: http://wobm.com/living-with-misophonia-and-how-many-people-it-affects/?trackback=blogroll_widget-latest-news
  
• https://ida.nonprofitcms.org/a/organizations/main/submissions/details/21399

Hopefully this documentary will help promote more mainstream awareness about misophonia.  :-)

Okay, I'll admit that since this website launched in 2012, this is the longest I've ever gone between blog posts. It's not that I haven't had misophonia happenings in all that time, I'm just finally getting a handle on all the responsibilities of my (not so) new position. Probably helped that it's been almost three months since  the PITA employee left (although I'm still having to deal with the chaos she created on the project on which she had been working), but also what helped was having a wonderful summer intern that, despite being 10 years the PITA's junior, she performed infinitely better! Friday was the summer intern's last day before heading to a semester abroad in Spain, but even she said she's looking forward to coming back to work for us over January-term and next summer too. It's amazing how having a wonderful employee can make the office experience so much more enjoyable and productive.

But enough of talk about employees... Yesterday my thoughts went to how different my misophonia experiences are now as a managing partner of an office versus years past when I was just another employee cog in a much larger corporate machine. It's not that my triggers have lessened (although perhaps being in a smaller office means that there are fewer people in my regular office environment surroundings who might create triggers). No, it's more that the situations where I am exposed to triggers puts me in situations where I'm less able to address them because of my position.

What do I mean by that? Well, as an employee surrounded by dozens of coworkers in cubicles, I found that if there was someone in an adjacent cubicle who regularly created triggers (such as whistling), usually I would be able to go up to that person and politely explain my misophonia and ask that person if (s)he could be so kind as to not create that trigger. If the situation became so bad that I was being triggered by multiple people around me, I was fortunate that the last two companies where I worked allowed me to move to another cubicle location - which usually helped.

In my current position when, at most, there are only two other people in the office (one of whom has a private office), the majority of my triggers occur outside of the office - when meeting with clients at their office or at a job site. It's a delicate situation to be sitting at a conference table with multiple clients who are clicking their pens or drumming their fingers on the table yet despite the torture, you can't afford to offend them. (It's even worse when it's a lunch meeting and everyone is eating crunchy potato chips out of crinkly bags). That's a more challenging situation than having to deal with triggers caused by fellow employees and more often than not I try to sit through the agony quietly - like I did for the many years before learning about misophonia. It's rare now that I reach for my earplugs, for fear that I'll miss something important during the meeting.  No... With my current leadership position, I've found that I've had to go back to "toughing it out" over speaking my mind.

Of course I'm still fairly open about addressing my discomfort in public when I'm exposed to triggers, but when it comes to triggers caused by clients... I'm still at the point where, unless they know me very well, I hold my tongue and hope that that it winds up being an efficient meeting instead of a long, drawn out one.